Exploring Uranus 🚀 PART 1

OF COURSE I’m talking about YOUR ANUS, not the planet!!

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Mmm yes, ladies, gents and peeps. The Anus. A part on our bodies with a bad rep butt with huge pleasure potential.

Anatomically, the anus is made for pleasure. The anus is lined with delicate mucosa (= membrane tissue that covers the surface of internal organs ) and this mucosa is full of highly sensitive nerve endings.

Read carefully now – after the clitoris, the anus is in second place when it comes to the number of nerve endings. No wonder it’s an exquisite treasure chest for pleasure and BOMB ASS orgasms.

Butt that’s not the only reason why the anus is a winner - inside of the wall that separates the vagina and anus, there is a sponge of erectile tissue that swells when you get turned on - and when erectile tissue gets stimulated, pleasure follows. 

And there’s more! The nerve bundles that innervates the back of the vagina, also spill onto the anus, meaning - MORE pleasure.

And, there’s even more – the prostate!! I think it’s such a shame that so many heterosexual men fear anal stimulation (for such an idiotic reason). The male body has another wonderful reason for anal play – prostate stimulation! The prostate is easily reached directly from the anus…and prostate pleasure is meant to be utterly exquisite!

If the anus is an unexplored area of your body, you are missing out BIG TIME. The anus is a beautiful, amazing, lovely and delightful part of your sexuality and I so so so encourage you to befriend it, if you aren’t already mates and partners in pleasure.

True story, some of the most mind-blowing and soul-transcending orgasms I’ve had, I got from anal play. I wish everyone would experience that, regardless of gender and sexual orientation.

When you connect with and unlock the pleasure in your asshole you can experience:

• Primal, intimate sexual experiences

• Powerful and expansive surrender 

• An unleashing of your inner power

• Healing social conditioning 

• Full acceptance of all parts of your body and all bodily functions/fluids

• Anal orgasms (!!!)

Anal sex can make you feel really WHOLE in your sexuality, as you are embracing your primal sexuality/pleasure, you full sexual body and pleasure potential, and it can be a really rewarding sxual & personal maturity journey. Anal orgasms can be some of the most spiritual experiences of your life. 

How do I have anal play/sex so it doesn’t hurt?

Anal sex is a very intimate and vulnerable experience that requires a lot of trust and communication. If you don’t feel safe with your partner, don’t do it!

You want to be able to take all the time you need so you can relax your whole body and anus to receive any kind of stimulation and penetration. Relaxation is truly key!

You’ll need lots of lube, preferably pure, high-quality silicone lube. Or any body friendly oil of your preference.

Please don’t use any kind lube that is numbing or desensitizing. You want to feel all the yummy sensations!

It hurts when you receive penetration against a contracted muscle, so that’s why trust and relaxation is so important. Start with a finger (a finger tip can feel PLENTY in the beginning) or really small toy and slowly and gently advance from there.

Let yourself enjoy a gradual, no-pressure process and you will find pleasure and so much goodness from anal play and sex!

Any partner that rushes or pressures you to have penetrative sex when you’re not ready, or is uncomfortable with talking about trust or boundaries or is disgusted with getting poo on their body, is not a good anal sex partner.

What toys are good for anal play and sex?

There are so many great toys for anal pleasure! Butt plugs, beads and dildos in different materials like silicone rubber, glass, steel. There are also prostate toys for men.

If you are new to anal exploration, it can be great to explore with a beginner toy like anal beads.

Always use plenty of lube!

Butt, we can’t talk anal play, without mentioning hygiene. 

To make anal sex as hygienic as possible, wash your anus externally with warm water and soap and then your hands as well. You don’t want to add soap internally, as the mucus membrane is sensitive and soap can cause irritation and a ph-imbalance.

To avoid any mess during anal sex, you want to have emptied your bowels successfully fairly recently. There should only be stool in your rectum (the part where you play) when you need to go to the toilet, so if you have done that, then there shouldn’t be a mess.

Butt, there are never any guarantees, so if there’s a little bit of poo on your partner or toy, laugh about it, wipe it off and continue playing.

You can also do an anal douche or enema, butt this is only recommended if you don’t have good bowel moments or you are going to have really deep anal sex and shouldn’t be done regularly as this also can affect the tissue and ph-balance.

That’s it for PART 1… next week I’ll share PART 2 with you where I explain how to find your anal pleasure. YAY!

Butt-oms up!

Love,
Erika

PS: 

Fun fact about Uranus:

Uranus | ˈjʊərənəs, jʊˈreɪnəs |

1 Astronomy a distant planet of the solar system, seventh in order from the sun, discovered by William Herschel in 1781.

Uranus orbits between Jupiter and Neptune at an average distance of 2,870 million km from the sun. It has an equatorial diameter of 51,120 km, and is one of the gas giants. The planet is bluish-green in colour, having an upper atmosphere consisting almost entirely of hydrogen and helium. There are at least seventeen satellites, the largest of which are Oberon and Titania, and a faint ring system.

2 Greek Mythology a personification of heaven or the sky, the most ancient of the Greek gods and first ruler of the universe. 

“The primal Greek god personifying heaven/the sky” – kinda like anal orgasms… primal, cosmic, transcendental experiences, where you dissolve and become one with the universe.